I’m never good with words. I never knew how to make people feel better. I hate hugging friends, family and strangers. In short, I hate hugging people. I hate seeing them upset though. I never knew what to do. For example, the other day, I saw my mother holding back her tears and I didn’t know what to do. Yes, I can protect her but how do I console her? I ended up calling my eldest sister and begged her to come over to talk to my mom. She did and my mom felt better after talking to someone.
For me, not asking doesn’t always mean I don’t care. It’s just that I simply don’t know how to say the right things to make you feel better.
So, whatever it is, I’m always here to listen. It’s just that I don’t really know how to make you feel better with the right words.